Thanksgiving Day is almost here.

Remember to give “thanks” for what you had…and what you still have:

Memories,

Love,

Feelings in your heart.

Those can never be taken from you unless you let them.

This year give thanks that the grief you feel is based on the enormous love you shared!

So, look at the pictures.

Reflect on the years.

Give yourself credit for having the strength to get up and face the day.

Don’t hibernate—socialize…even if it’s only for a brief time.

And be honest about your feelings and communicate your concerns and needs—you don’t have to cover up.

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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