When I share my vivid 1990 dream experience about being with Cindy (she died in 1989), many people have told me they feel disappointed and hurt that their deceased loved one has never “appeared” to them in such a vivid manner. In fact some have said they just cannot seem to dream about their beloved…and they desperately want to—they want to feel that closeness again. They want to know s/he is OK. There are so many reasons for wanting…
So what can you do to increase your chances of having a “visitation” that seems so real, or a dream involving your beloved? Well, here’s what one person shared with me:

“Try using a prayer from your heart and asking God, Jesus, Mary, your Higher Power, the universe, your deceased loved one (whomever or whatever you believe in) to have your deceased beloved come to visit you when you are sleeping, or meditating—when you are more relaxed, open and receptive.

“Then patiently await your sleep-state ADC (after death communication experience). 

“You can even ask for a sign to be given to you while you are awake so you’ll know your beloved still exists. The most common signs are butterflies and rainbows…but they can be birds, flowers, animals and inanimate objects (such as finding an item you associate with the deceased).

“Remember, nurture yourself when you are grieving and many experiences are possible. It may not seem rational to have visitations, but who can say it isn’t possible? –It isn’t something that can be proved or disproved.”

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My friend
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