Here is a sample letter of condolence you might send a friend (when you didn’t know the deceased):

Dear Janice,

This morning James told us the sad news of your mother’s death.

My family and I extend our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. The loss must touch you very deeply as you face these first numbing day of grief. I know you will miss her deeply.

I recall the glint in your eye when you spoke of how much fun you had together when you made, years ago, those ceramic Christmas ornaments that now adorn your tree every year. I know Carol was a talented, vibrant woman and you will miss her. I also know that you recognize the blessings of the beautiful years you shared. You were such a source of courage and strength to Carol as her health declined and I trust those same qualities will help guide you during this difficult time.

You have my sympathy and friendship and I will call this weekend to see if I can take the children for the afternoon or perhaps run some errands for you.

My heart and my tears are with you,
Melanie

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My friend
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