Here is a sample letter of condolence you might send a friend (when you knew the deceased):

Dear Mark,

My heart ached this morning when Marie called and I heard the news of Tim’s death.

Words seem so inadequate but this letter comes filled with love and sympathy for the death of your father. I loved him too.

He was dearly loved by everyone whose life he touched, but for me he was more –he was like a second father. He was a rare source of wisdom, and through his guidance the possibilities of my life grew.

As I write, I’m flooded with memories of conversations I had with Tim—how he encouraged me to finish writing my 500-page book (he knew what an emotional process it was at times) and how he spoke so fondly of you, his only son (he was very proud of you).

I know this is a difficult time for you and I want you to know you have my friendship and sympathy. I’ll call you tomorrow around 6pm and help make arrangements for out-of-town guests (I have room for a few people and I can help transport people to the funeral).

My prayers and thoughts are with you,

Melanie

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My friend
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