Melanie Hack shares healing thoughts


Thanks for sending this to me Melissa:

“This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody.  There was an important job to be done and Everybody was asked to do it.  Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.  Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.  Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everbody’s job.  Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody accused Anybody.”

~ Unknown

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 22nd, 2011 at 10:23 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

Touching words from the mouth of a child:

A four-year-old child had an elderly gentleman as a next-door neighbor. The gentleman had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

Now that’s love!

What does love mean to you?

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 20th, 2011 at 12:03 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

“We inherit from our ancestors gifts so often taken for granted…Each of us contains within us…this inheritance of soul. We are links between the ages, containing past and present expectations, sacred memories and future promise.”

~Edward Sellner

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 17th, 2011 at 5:42 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

“If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.”

~Attributed to Claudia Ghandi

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 16th, 2011 at 9:17 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

For you see, each day I love you more
Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.

~Rosemonde Gerard

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 14th, 2011 at 7:55 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change.

~Buddha

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 8th, 2011 at 11:13 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

“Life is a train of moods like a string of beads; and as we pass through them they prove to be many colored lenses, which paint the world their own hue, and each shows us only what lies in its own focus.”

~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 5th, 2011 at 9:24 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

If I had a career do-over I think I’d go to Crime Scene University and study forensic science.

I recently watched a TV show on the Investigation Discovery channel and it took me right back to the days when I was researching for my book Who Killed My Sister, My Friend – entomological evidence, processing a crime scene—basically extrapolating death information using forensics (forensic entomology in this particular episode). I thought it was fascinating!

And I learned something new. The investigator is supposed to follow the maggot trail to find the ones that have traveled the furthest from the decomposing remains—that helps determine how long the maggots have been there (because of their developmental stage) and subsequently how long the corpse has been there. (I don’t know if that was done in Cindy’s case—when I review inquest exhibit report #89-1136 which stated that “nine jars of insect samples were collected at the death site from under and on the body, from the hands and facial area, and from the coat found next to body and slightly under,” I don’t see a mention of a maggot trail.

And from the recent TV show I also learned that collection (using sweep netting and sticky traps placed near the corpse) of adult insects in the area “must be started immediately [upon finding the corpse]” because “a high amount of law enforcement personnel in the vicinity may disturb the flies enough that they will leave. Collecting the adult insects is very important as it provides an indication as to what species of insects can be found in the corpse in the larvae form.”

Now, I’m going to get a little graphic here so you can skip the rest of this if you want to…

When I was doing research for my book I learned blowflies deposit their eggs on decaying matter of animal origin—including decaying human bodies like Cindy’s. The larvae grow rapidly and moult three times so that within 14 days they have developed fully (by the way, Cindy’s body was found two weeks after she went missing on the evening of May 25th 1989). By identifying which stage of larvae development each of the recovered and preserved insects are in, and comparing them to notes, the investigator would be able to count backwards in days to determine approximately when the first insect eggs were likely deposited on the body, roughly giving the day of death—or at least when the body first received insect attention.

Since the length of time spent in each larval stage is variable, being dependent on temperature, humidity and foodstuff, the temperature and precipitation records for May and June in 1989, for Vancouver International Airport, were compiled in an effort to hopefully determine the day of Cindy’s death. Those weather records plus the development of the insects were used to estimate the elapsed time since death.

According to these studies, which showed above-average May temperatures and 24.1 millimeters of rain during May 25th, 26th, and 27th, it was determined Cindy’s death occurred before June 1, 1989. That is the only conclusion that could be made with certainty, and it was hardly helpful in figuring out whether or not Cindy died at the death site around the time she disappeared or whether she could have died elsewhere, and her body later dumped at the death site.

It was then up to the autopsy findings to determine if she died at the site where she was found or if she was dumped there after death (obviously definitely murder in that case)—but even the autopsy could not produce an answer to that.

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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February 2nd, 2011 at 11:00 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”

~Martin Luther King

Melanie Hack
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January 27th, 2011 at 6:51 am | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink


“The quality, not the longevity, of one’s life is what is important.”

~Martin Luther King

Melanie Hack
Author of Who Killed My Sister, My Friend
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January 19th, 2011 at 1:21 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink